Indian Malayalam Film Review
Johnson Thomas
The harsh, unpalatable truth
The Great Indian Kitchen ( streaming on Neestream)
Cast: Nimisha Sajayan, Suraj Venjaramoodu, Ajitha V
M, T. Suresh Babu, Ramadevi Kannanchery, Sidhartha Siva, Anupama V. P.,
Nishitha Kallingal
Director: Jeo Baby
Rating: * * * ½
Runtime: 100 min.
This Jeo Baby film is fast waking up the bucolic
Kerala countryside and the rest of India to the reality of Gender Inequality,
male entitlement and misogyny in a far more articulate, coherent and strongly
evocative manner than any women’s liberation activism ever has. The film has
not only garnered rave reviews but also shamed the conscience of many a man
seeking entitlement in a traditional setup where the dice is always loaded
against the women of the household.
The subject matter Director Jeo Baby is dealing
with, is simple. It’s an expose of the inner workings of a traditional
household where the hierarchy is set in favour of the men. Micro focused on the
Indian (Kerala)Kitchen, the narrative follows the female protagonist from
arranged marriage to rebellion with nuanced manifestation of how the
patriarchal setup ensnares and ensures subjugation of women all through married
life.

The film opens into deliberations and processes
involved in an arranged marriage where the girl (Nimisha Sajayan) a product of
Gulf returned parents is presented to a man (Suraj Venjaramoodu) whose
upbringing is pronouncedly traditional, coming from a well-respected
Tharawad(family). The boy and girl have a stilted token conversation before
both the families informally agree to conduct the marriage. Both boy and girl
are mere puppets to their parents aspirations and have been so conditioned that
they accept the role of the elders without question. The ceremony done, we see
the new car and a box full of heavy jewellery come home to the boy’s abode. The
girl gets a reprieve for the first few days as her mother-in-law is kind enough
to give her time to adjust to the new normal. Signs of a not so ideal beginning
are evident in the subtle demands placed on her by the husband. It may be on
the pretext of love but the expectations of servitude from the girl is clear.
When the mother-in-law is called away to care for her own pregnant daughter the
responsibility for running the household chores rest solely on the newly minted
daughter-in-law. And she is game enough to give it a good try in all
earnest…But of course it’s a given that she is bound to be faulted for her less
than traditional approach - especially when it concerns her attempts to ease
the overload of expectations, her attempt to seek out a job and bodily issues
with regards to her menstrual cycle.

The narrative may be linear but it is stingingly
lucid in its attempt to lay bare the double standards inherent in tradition and
customs. The signs that could elucidate frustration are all evident in the
daily drudgery of household chores that the wife is expected to complete. Stark
unromanticised images of women going about their tasks under unviable
conditions are visible all through. The chopping of vegetables, grinding of
rice and preparations for breakfast, cooking of rice over a fireplace, grating
of coconuts, washing of utensils, making tea and sweets, hand-washing clothes
and repeat … It’s a series of never ending tasks amplified by a unfixed leaking
sink – allowing no rest or respite for the protagonist. The not so subtle
taunts and reprimands by the two male members bring things to a boil and the
woman breaks free from her shackles with a symbolic show of rebellion. But she
is just one in a million. Tradition demands that the next victim be readied to
take her place in order that patriarchy stands undiminished.
Even without much dialogue, Jeo Baby pulls off a
stirring diatribe against the status quo. He factors in some telling sequences
as he builds up an impregnable case for women’s empowerment. Most notable among
them are the sequences between father-in-law and daughter-in-law and those
between husband and wife. There are no harsh words exchanged nor is there any
overt display of anger – just a gentle reminder that her role in the family is
entirely servile to the men. With uncomfortable, harsh visuals and
all-too-brief taunt-laden exchanges, the real picture of an arranged marriage
emerges loud and clear. This film is a must-see for everyone!
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